I think jealousy and the age thing are a factor but I think it is more than that. This lady never went ape shit over Norman's last girlfriend, Glenn, and there were pics of them at events online all the time. Glenn stayed in the background, she didn't play the childish, mean girl, High School games that Cecilia does(the nude pics of her on Normans bed, the rude, snarky comments to his fans). Norman's fans are very connected to him, very attached, even he acknowledges that. Cecilia's "in your face" attitude is a definite no-go with a lot of his fans.